There’s a human urge to fit the chaotic facts of our lives into coherent stories, to make it feel like whatever’s happening is happening for a reason. Despite their differences in circumstances, Rand Gauthier and Pamela Anderson have been telling themselves similar stories. They’re misunderstood; they’re not taken seriously; they can’t manifest the outcomes they want. But right this second, they’re both on the cusp of changing their personal narratives. Pam has wrapped the comic book movie Barb…